2021... My wish for you this year
Set Goals on How you Want to Feel
⭐My wish for you is this year you set goals on how you want to feel, not the numbers on a scale or likes on a photo 🙅🏼♀️
⭐My wish for you is that you glow from the inside out because you nourish your body with wholefoods 🍓
⭐My wish for you is that you radiate happiness from the endorphins you release daily from moving your body (because you’re grateful you can) 🤸🏼♂️
⭐My wish for you is that your energy lights up a room when you walk in because people can feel your peace and joy 🥰
⭐My wish for you is you attract soulful and abundant relationships because your level of self worth wouldn’t accept anything less 👩❤️💋👨
⭐My wish for you is the confidence and security that comes with prioritising your own wealth creation and career so you can have the freedom to pursue your dreams ❤️🙌🏽
Welcome to 2021…
Hello and welcome to 2021! I hope you all had a super relaxing Christmas and New Year, and that you’re ready to tackle the year ahead!
Given many of us have just returned to work for the year and we’re starting to get back into the swing of things, I thought it was a great time to talk about NEW YEAR GOALS.
Lets get started…
⭐How many of you have set goals for 2021?
⭐And how many of those resolutions are around your weight?
Us women are the worst for it 🙈
Days of a Professional Dancer
If you have read my book you will know in my days of being a professional dancer, I didn’t have a healthy relationship with food, exercise or myself. And when Christmas would come around I would enjoy everything, and then I would spend January self-loathing. I would punish my body, start a diet or plan out an unrealistic exercise regime 😣
But I haven’t set goals like this since I was 21. It’s been around seven years since I placed these unfair expectations on myself and would beat myself up for not reaching the goals. I had to pull myself up and change my thinking when I realised just how much I was damaging myself.
Why Didn’t I Achieve My Goals…
I’m sure many of us have set resolutions that depended on a number on the scales, but I’m sure just as many of us never actually achieved those goals 💁♀ The reason we never ticked them off our list is that we were focusing on the wrong thing.
A New Way to Goal Setting…
⭐This year, I want you to shake up the way you look at your New Year’s goals.
⭐Instead of making it about what you look like, make it about how you ‘feel’.
⭐Think about how you’re going to feel when you start nourishing your body with the right foods.
⭐Think about how radiant you’re going to be when you’re so positive and happy because you’ve been moving your body every day and releasing endorphins.
⭐Think about the confidence you’re going to have when you have good self-worth and boundaries.
Getting Back Into The Swing of Things
As you get back into work for the year, I encourage you to set some intentions for yourself.
Ask yourself – “How do I want to feel?”.
⭐Skip the diets, skip the restrictions and skip the weight loss challenges.
⭐Instead, move your body because you’re grateful that you can.
⭐Nourish your body because you’re grateful for everything it does for you, and you want it to keep looking after you.
⭐Think about the sort of person you want to be in your relationships with your family, friends and colleagues.
If you’re looking for a romantic relationship in 2021, this is something you can consider too…
⭐Do you need to make yourself feel worthy and content in your own company before you can be with someone else?
⭐Do you have your own routine, hobbies and things that bring you joy?
⭐Are you stable in and passionate about your career?
⭐Can you confidently stand on your own two feet financially?
⭐Have you filled your cup to the brim so someone can come share your happy bubble and compliment your already amazing life?
⭐Or are you needing someone to ‘make’ your life and be the reason for your happiness.
Remember we are attracted to people that want us…not need us.
Self love and self worth is sexy AF.
Are you caught in the Trap of Unrealistic and Unfair New Year’s Resolutions?
These are concepts that we slowly learn as we grow older and develop healthier relationships with our food, movement, relationships and ourselves.
But there are plenty of women, particularly young women that follow me that are still caught in the trap of unrealistic and unfair New Year’s resolutions. I’m here to challenge those girls and say – Don’t do it.
⭐Make this year the first year that you don’t set a diet goal.
⭐Make this year a year where you focus on how you want to feel.
⭐If you’re focusing on restriction and deprivation, you’re only going to feel like a skeleton and a shadow of your best self.
Choose abundance, nourishment and alignment…
I take a deep dive on this in my book, and I’ve got a whole chapter dedicated to setting healthy goals for yourself. If you’re looking for further learning and want someone to hold your hand and be a cheerleader, send me a message and have a look into the Healthstyle Emporium.
Healthstyle Emporium - How it Can Help…
I used to have such a bad relationship with food and movement, which I think resulted from my dancing background. When I came across the Healthstyle Emporium, I learned a little more about nutrition and the effects of stress on my body.
Before this..
I used to run endless kilometres every week, skip meals and restrict my eating. But you know what? Despite me focusing excessively on my ‘health’…it was the unhealthiest and unhappiest I have ever felt 😅
Finding Myself…
After going through that journey myself, I really want to encourage you ladies to make this year the year that you have a different relationship with food - that you focus on loving yourself from the inside out 💖
⭐The best way to start this journey, and commit to yourself is to surround yourself with women that lift you up, inspire you to be the best version of yourself and encourage you to dream big...
⭐Fill your feed with these women. Spend your time with these women. Stop making space and time for things and people that bring you down and don’t enrich your life, or at the very least challenge you to be better.
⭐Let’s start by thinking of one healthier habit you can focus on cultivating today…
⭐Whats one thing you can focus on this month that would you become the happiest, healthiest and most inspired version of yourself?
Lets start there 😉
What is the Healthstyle Emporium?
Earlier this week I did an IGTV explain what The HSE actually is, what it includes and I shared a sneak peak of the magic that happens behind the scenes inside the program if you would love to check to out!
Get Healthier and Happier Program
If you would love to get healthier and happier with me this year, be sure to check out the program here.
Partner with Lauren Kerr
And if you would love to get paid to share the program and create an online income, check out info about our team here.
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So excited to see what magic 2021 has in store for you!
To your health and happiness,